Sexual Games and Self Enslavement

In this Juice Newton song, she sings about playing sexual games with males; until one day she lost herself completely to a male:
"Shot Full Of Love"

Once I had a heart cold as ice
Love to me was only for fun
I'd make a mark for each broken heart
Like notches on the butt of a gun

Once I had a trick up my sleeve
A reputation all over town
I was heartless and cold, wherever I'd go
I shot down every young boy I found

Yes I used to be a moonlight bandit
I used to be a heartbreak kid
Then I met you and the next thing I knew
There I was, oh, shot full of love

Who'd have thought that someone like you
Could take a desperado like me
But , oh, here I am, I'm as meek as a lamb
With my bleeding heart there at your feet

Yes I used to be a moonlight bandit
I used to be a heartbreak kid
Then I met you and the next thing I knew
There I was, oh, shot full of love

Yes I used to be a moonlight bandit
I used to be a heartbreak kid
Then I met you and the next thing I knew
There I was

I used to be a moonlight bandit
I used to be a heartbreak kid
Then I met you and the next thing I knew
There I was, oh, shot full of love

Man songs were sung by females regarding this issue. That is a great reason not to be a "Player". It is an extremely hazardous function that could result on death.

When You Lose Yourself Unwillingly In a Relationship

This song by the music group Heart explains the incident:

"I Didn't Want To Need You"

Baby, I never gave my heart to anyone, oh no
Used to think that love was a game
I used to make it just for fun
When we spent the night together
Didn't mean it meant that much
Now I just can't live without your touch

I didn't wanna to need you, no
I didn't wanna want you like I do
I didn't mean to fall
Didn't wanna care at all
I didn't wanna need you
Like I need you now

I can't get no sleep
'Coz I keep thinking of you all through the
night, oh yeah
My eyes can't wait to see you again
My arms can't wait to hold you tight oh yeah
And when you're laying here beside me
There is nothing else I need
Never thought that this could ever be

I didn't wanna to need you, oh no
I didn't wanna want you like I do
I didn't mean to fall
Didn't wanna care at all
I didn't wanna need you
Like I need you now

I've always been free
To leave when I wanna leave
But it's not up to me anymore
I didn't wanna need you ...

I didn't wanna to need you, no
I didn't wanna want you like I do
I didn't mean to fall
Didn't wanna care at all
I didn't wanna need you
But I need you now

In this relationship,she took him in her;sexually,too deeply. She lost control over her love, thoughts;and,emotions.She enslaved herself unwillingly.

This is typical in most relationships.Many musicians sing of the lack of self control that is similar to this song.

Mutuality in Relationships

In any relationship, there must be a designated time to be with each other, mutuality in what is to be included in the relationship; and synchronicity  in the relationship. If these priorities are present, the relationship will function at its highest potentials.

How to Start a Relationship

Once a potential partner has been found, there are many things to consider before beginning a relationship:
[1] Open Communication: Let each other know what you think of the other. If you are not compatible, do not desire a relationship; or, other desire, let the other know immediately.
If you are ready for a relationship, let the other know; then, explain what type of relationship you desire. Let each other know what you desire from the relationship.
[2] Electromagnetic Attraction: Ensure your electromagnetic energies are compatible. If you experience excessive pain or pleasure, you are not compatible.
[3] Ensure you are emotionally, psychologically, physically; and, environmentally compatible.
  [1] Emotional: You must desire the relationship; not need a relationship.
  [2] Psychologically: you must be psychologically compatible. Sometimes high tech lifestyles and simple                 oriented lifestyles are not compatible.
  [3] Physically: Ensure you are not experiencing searching for pleasure and love to alleviate pain and misery.
        Also, ensure you have control over yourself.
  [4] Environmentally: Ensure your environment is safe to pursue a relationship. Toxic environments, criminal           environments, electronics mind control areas and other areas limit potentials for a relationship.
  [5] Naturality: Ensure you are attractive to each other psychologically, emotionally; and, physically without
       cosmetics or other coverings.
  [6] Undesirable Traits: Everyone has a trait; or traits, that is not compatible. For example: One may attend           sports events or other events. Discuss everything you do not like about each other; and, make                       schedules to do as you desire without negative emotions. Accept each other totally; including things
        that are not compatible to yourself. Separate at special times; and spend a few days doing what the               partner does not like to do. Do what both of you like together. Do not hide any nondesirable traits from         each other. Due to malcommunication; and undesired traits, couples experienced divorce,                             argumentation; and other negative experiences.