This is a guide to starting a relationsip. It will explain techniques, problems; and, what a relationship is.
Here is the Guide:
* What a relationship is: A relationship may mean a friendship, Boyfriend/ Girlfriend status, Marital staus; or, many other types of relationships. I will explain the Love type relationships here.
* Who to have a relationship with: The best relationships come from people who are very familiar with each other. It is necessary to have much knowledge of someone to determine if you are compatible with that person.
* Reasons or a relationship: There are many reasons people form a relationship. One is due to strong attraction to the other's personality, traits, character; and sometimes, beauty. If beauty only is the reasoning, it is not a good relationship. A second type of relationship is to alleviate or terminate misery or lonliness. That is not a good reason for a relationship. A third reason is solely for sex. That is not a good relationship. Sex may be experienced with anyone. There are very many types of relationships; but, obnly those involving attraction and love woill be healthy.
* Obligations: In ANY relationship, you must make it clear there are to be absolutely no obligations for anything in the realtionship. Obligations are a form of forcible slavery to make you perform things yo normally would not perform.
* Meeting For the First Time: When meeting for the first time, th female is to determine the place to meet usually. It must not be close to her residence. Friends must be near to her; and video the entire meeting. Other friends will be close to her to provide protecton in cas of emergency. This will ensure proper safety. The couple is to never go into private or secluded areas. That is where crimes are performed. Stay in dense public areas. No criminal will perform a crime in public where witnesses are. An alternative is to meet at a public restraunt, conference room; or, other; well protected area. Being safe is having fun.
* Kissing: Generally, kissing is ot good when meeting a new person; or, dating for the first time.
* Background Check: ALWAYS ind the name, birth place and age of the new person before meetmng them. Check for criminal prosecutions; and, prison sentences.
* Environmental Check: Check with local government data sites on the type of environment the potential partner lives in. See if there is any type of criminal activity or other danger there.
* Acquaintance status: Always tay as acquaintances until yo are sure o are ready for more.
* Disease: Have the potential partner checked for diseases before even kissing that person. Be very safe.
* Shyness: In many cases, shyness is a safety emotion. It will prevent you from doing something potentially hazardous. Do not ignore it.
* Specific things to know aout our potential Mate: Learn about the person very well regarding temperament, alcohol use, drug use,hobbies [They indicatre the personality], shyness, music preferences [They indicate a potentially violent personality], Movies that person likes [That indicates any violence or other elements of their personality], type of work they do, sexual relations, past lovers, past marriages, children they may have [and if they still see them]; and, other indicating tings about there personality.
* Dating sites: Inquire aout their reason for visiting a dating site. Criminals search for victims there. Others my search for someone due to not being capable of funding anyone anywhere else. Why? Dting sites fail due to hesitation caused by not knowing who they are dealing with. It makes them nervous to perform a "Blind Date".
* Breaking Up: Breaking p is simpler than you may expect. Simply explain you are nt compatible with that person; and, you prefer them as a friend; or, you are searching for someone much more compatible [if you do not desire them as a friend]. You do not have to be abrupt, rude; or, offensive to break up.
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