Relationships Step 1

Always remember the 3 basic steps of a relationship. These are the 3 steps: [1] Keep your mind closed to everybody. Your mind is YOU. It is your personality, beliefs, thoughts, memory, and everything else about you. Only YOU have the right to change it when you want to. [2] Keep your love closed at first. Go slowly. There is plenty of time to be in love. Your love chooses many people to be in "love" with. Your mind choose the one single person who is best for you. [3] Keep your relationship sex free. To love someone, you do not have to have sex with them. Sex is for making babies; not love. Love enhances sex. There were 3 couples I remember who were married. One was married for 58 years. One was married 73 years. and one couple was married 38 years. NONE of these 3 couples ever had sex. They died as virgins. THAT is how love is supposed to be.Love first; then sex. THAT will be the safest to prevent heartbreak. If someone does not love you without sex, it is likely that person only loves sex. Stay away from that type of person. Learn about each other completely. Find out what you like and do not like about each other. Discuss it with each other. That way, no surprises or divorces could happen easily.