The Etiology of Love

When a male and female, male and male, female and female, or other combination attract each other and a persistance of desire to be close to each other exists, it may be the beginning ; or display , of love. A series of tests is necessary to determine the actual relationship towards each other. In the present society, insufficient knowledge of a person may lead to disaster. It is absolutely necessary to determine every potential for a negative relationship and avoid it or learn to divert or control it. Infatuation; and the avoidance of it, is very difficult for extremely beautifull females and overly handsome males. Those 2 groups will experience the absolutely MOST difficult times attempting to attract; and keep, a partner. Many things are complicating of these types of relationships. Also, the greatest tests of all on a partner is equally as well experienced. The "ugly", "strange", or other categorized type of people will not necessarily have much difficulty finding a partner as finding a correct one. Many psychologically disadvantaged [ not necessarily of a criminal nature] people will arise to fill the relationship "void". It is NOT important to have a relationship until it is desired. Presently, many people are criticized because they had no sex, no boyfriend or girlfriend, or any relationship. In actuality, only the most naive, moronic, masochistic, or emotionally unstable people will have a relationship before they need one; or, at a too young age. Many hazards are present with those persons criticisms should be ignored; or, at the very most, attacked by statements such as " I have full control over myself. I don't need anyone. You are the one who is weak to need someone.". Forced relationships are created from excessive lonliness and sadness. Friends may alleviate the sadness without a relationship. If lonliness is excessive, masturbation while simultaneously thinking "Do I REALLY need this?" may help. After realization you are not ready for a child, lonliness disappears or lessens. Once a realization you are not ready for a relationship, you will not have the desire. A second forced relationship arises when a friend attempts to utilize you for his or her infatuation, love, or as a sexual partner. That type of relationship may be very hazardous.