Starting a Relationship

Before starting a relationship, determine why a relationship is to be started; and what will be included in the relationship. In ANY relationship, sex may be considered. For a sexual encounter to be experienced, many questions must be considered such as: [1] Is it really necessary to have sex? If it is not, avoid it. If it is, many things need to be considered. Those issues will be itemized in the next questions. [2] Is sex important in a relationship? In some cases, sex is exclusively the reason for the relationship. In some cases, sex is NOT a potential. [3] Is potential pregnancy prepared for? Accidental pregnancies occurs; as well as forced pregnancies to trap a partner. Is the male or female prepared for pregnancy? [4] Is breakage prepared for? Are the male and female prepared for forcible, purposefull, or accidental breakage of the virginity or love zones? If so, how far may breakage occur? Are the male and female prepared for breakage of a marital point? [5] Are the male and female of STD potential? Usually, in ANY relationship, a medical card should be shown to display lack of STD as determined by medical tests. The tests should be made monthly; or weekly, if the person has multiple partners. [6] Does sex match the relationship? Is sex part of the specific relationship? some relationships are love types only. The next set of questions regards what type of relationship is desired: [1] What type of relationship is desired? What type of relationship do the male and female desire? [2] Do the Partners desire a Girlfriend/ Boyfriend relationship? If so, do BOTH partners desire that type of relationship? [3] Is there a desire for potential marriage? Do one or both partners desire future marriage together? If so, is the relationship based on that desire? Is he desire exclusive? From these questions, many other questions arise that are more specific. To create a more specific relationship requires honesty, open minds, and conversation. BOTH partners must know what type the other desires in a relationship, how far are they willing to go, and what happens if they need to break up.