How to Avoid Losing Yourself over Someone who is Beautifull

To keep yourself from losing control over yourself for someone, always think of what you hate most abut that person. Think of everything possible that causes you to be repulsed; including the thought of hating the fact that person makes you lose control; when you do not desire to lose control. Think of how much you hate being "owned"; or, controlled by someone else. Think of everything that will allow you to be repulsed by that person. In that way, escape is possible; even if only for a short period of time.