Learning to Love

There are 2 forms of "Love": [1] True Love: True love makes a person healthy, strong and long living. [2] Infatuation: Infatuation is a negative emotion that is extremely hazardous. It is a partial love with disregards to incompatability. To love someone takes very much time. A person must first learn all about the one they desire to love. After that, many things must firstly be established before attempting to create a relationship; such as: * Personality Compatability: couples must be strongly attracted to each others mannerisms, characteristics, and demeanor. They do not have to be similar to each other. In fact, they may be oppositional. * Psychologically Compatable: Couples must enhance each other in psychological ways. Fascination, admiration, and attraction to each other's traits such as knowledge, logic, reasoning, and stability under adverse conditions. Aestheticism: Both partners must be strongly attracted to each other beyond friendship, relations similar to a brother and sister, and other relations; and, without inhibitions. * Trust: Both partners must trust each other with extremely personal details about each other. * Defense: Though occurring early in a relationship, both partners defend each other from other potential mates; willingly. Eventually, they trust each other around others. Jealousy: Both partners realize how special each other is. They are defensively jealous of others who may interfere with the relationships They are not jealous of each other. That would be a lack of trust or each other. They are jealous of other people who may be more beautifull, attractive, appealing; or, potentially seductive to their partner. *Staying with each other: When a couple loves each other, they do not desire to leave each other's side. It malkes them extremely miserable to be apart for even a few minutes. *Sharing: Both partners share each other's love only. They share scents, love, pleasures, passions, and feelings. In some cases, sex is used to create energy to amplify their love. They do not share; or open, their private lives such as general characteristics, lifestyle, or anything not pertaining to love and sex. * Sex: Sex is not a part of being in love. Love becomes so strong that eventually both partners have a strong urge to make a baby. Sex also assists in the bonding of a couple in an impenetrable and extremely strong love bond. Sexual energies intensify love with energization. The couples think of each other; and attempt to make each other feel the best; as well as secondarily, experiencing pleasure themselves. They concentrate on their partner's pleasures primarily while; simultaneously, desiring pleasures themselves. Passion: Passion is a very pleasurable sensation that is experienced when a couple becomes very closely in love. Both partners share pleasurable feelings of love; as well as sharing senses of olfaction [ sense of smell] of each other's scent, sense of hearing smacky sounds, feelings of touching, sense of closeness, sense of comfort, sense of freedom to expression, love without resistance, sense of knowing both partners desire the same feelings; and, emotional, psychological, and other physical sensation sharing. Passions do not always result in sex. In most cases, just sharing each other completely is sufficient to express intense love for each other. Kissing: Though kissing is regarded as repulsive, it is construed also as a loving thing when associated psychologically to love. Using the mouth to massage each other's lips, smack the lips to create "sensual" sounds, and other functions; including smelling of each other's saliva, is very common; as well as using the mouth; in kisses, to stimulate each other sexually. Kissing is the function of displaying a very close love and affection by touching each other while allowing the faces to become very close together. Kissing is especially enjoyed by couples who are sexually active. The couples may create smacking sounds similar to sexual smacking. That enhances sexual desires; especially if used during sex. Touching and Hugging: Touching and hugging is a way that couples have to become very close to each other. They may more easily feel, smell, and experience a closeness that is stimulating to their love. Rubbing, massaging, touching, and hugging are ways to display a comfortableness to the partner. By touching, rubbing, and massaging, they are capable of relaxing each other more; and, to allow greater closeness and experience of passions. Rarely does rubbing, touching, massaging, or hugging result in sex; unless both couples mutually desire sex. Enhancing Pregnancy: When a couple is ready, they desire to reach the greatest of all heights of love. They desire to make a baby. The ultimate sexual pleasures are experienced when the male moves in and out at a slow speed; then increases speed until a moderate [level 5 out of 210] level of pleasure is reached during orgasm. Both partners spurt moderately fastly; yet for a prolonged time of 1-3 seconds per spurt. They spurt until almost at a terminus; when the male moves hard and fast for a few strokes. They both spurt together in a pleasurable; But, not intense manner.The male repeats the movements until both partners are no longer capable of orgasm. The orgasm may last from 3-15 minutes. Sometimes, the male will continue. Similarly pleasurable feelings are experienced without spurting. In extreme cases; but, not properly, both eventually have more intense orgasms from spurting urine. The urine burns their appendages; and causes them to feel more intense pleasurable orgasm. That is very rare to experience. I created that technique in the 1980's.Continuity of Love: Sexual pleasures are very powerfull at times; and fade away in a short time. Love is equally as well pleasurable; but, is not sexually related. The entire body feels pleasured; except the sexual appendages [organs]. It is continual and results in great health, strength and happiness. Respect: Both couples respect each other. They take care of each other similarly to a mother who cares for her child. They nurture each other, pamper each other; and do things for ach other to preserve each other's health, love, and happiness for a lifetime. Marriage: In marriage, both partners do not change. They keep their own lifestyles, their own beliefs and ideas; and in fact, nothing changes except they share their lives together and they are married. they love each other still as much as when they were single; as well as snuggle, touch, and do all of the things they did before marriage. If they did not have sex before marriage, they are not obligated to have sex after marriage. Usually, sex is reserved for marriage. I created the perfect display of love of all. To break each other's virginity on the wedding night; and, make a baby. Making a baby on the wedding night is extremely romantic; and, displays the absolutely greatest love of all' but, only if both partners are ready to make a baby at that time. Sharing Each Other: When true love is present, both partners trust each other. They show each other what they think. That allows each other to create a perfect love and pleasure experience. They share each other as much as possible physically. They use mental contact wit each other to display love, passion, and pleasure. During sex, the male may watch; and regulate what the female experiences. The female does the same. The male attempts to slowly and gently enter into the female's womb; without her losing her capability to breathe. When the female trusts the male, it is simple to take all of him in her without any discomfort at all. The male must be very gentle and patient. Eventually, the female is stretched sufficiently to take it all of the way in every time; without any discomfort at all; and, without affecting the breathing.