Sexuality is usually reserved for making babies. It is very rare to desire sexual contact with anyone; but, peer pressures usually contribute to forced self pleasuring.
If having sex with anyone is considered, many things must firstly be determined:
* Are you ready to lose your entire love, mind, decision making, future; and relationship to the person you desire to have sexually?
* Are you ready to marry the person you desire?
Do you refer masturbation over a relationship? The same things apply as having a real relationship; if you fantasize about someone you desire.
In my relationships, females desire me due to my allowing them to be free. Even though I may be very selfish and greedy, I tell the female to think the way she desires. I do not control her decisions. I tel her to remember how she felt about me before having sex with me. After sex, I tell her to remember how she felt about me before and after sex; and, determine what she wants to think. She is free to leave, stay; or do and think as she desires. Mutuality in a relationship is the ultimate relationship. A single sided relationship is slavery.
In this manner is she to be with me when she desires; and not forced into being with me when she has other things to do, The old adage "Set her free. If she loves you, she will come back" applies totally.
Any relationship; including marriage, does not have to include sex. Sometimes love is sufficient. It is best to allow both the male and female to decide; and agree with, each others decision[s].
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